Jan 6, 2021We’re All Struggling with Depression and Anxiety — But Young People Have It WorstBack in 1953, Brock Chisholm, a psychiatrist and first Director-General of the World Health Organization, commented, “Without mental health there can be no true physical health.” More than 60 years later, this lesson has never felt more crucial. Many of us can cite the number of Americans who have died…Coronavirus3 min read
Jun 11, 2020What I learned about systemic racism at the doctor’s officeIf you’ve never personally experienced institutional discrimination — racism, sexism, homophobia — there’s no way you can understand it. You can’t get how deep it goes, how irresistible it is. If you’ve never been the target of any kind of institutionalized stigma it’s easy to think each incident or encounter…Black Lives Matter4 min read
Jan 20, 20206 Things Eating Disorders Treatment Often Gets WrongAnorexia nervosa is one of the most pernicious diseases around. People who develop it are sick, on average, for four to seven years. A third never recover. Ten percent die from the disease, either from malnutrition or from suicide. Some of these depressing statistics can be chalked up to the…Anorexia4 min read
Published in Forge·Nov 21, 2019How to Talk to a Relative You’re Estranged FromEach interaction is part of a bigger process of acceptance — This story is part of How to Talk to Anyone, Forge’s guide to moving past the chitchat and truly connecting. My relationship with my mother was traumatic and dysfunctional and, I’m convinced, nearly killed me. When I finally cut her off, three years before she died, my life improved dramatically. …How To Talk To Anyone5 min read
Jun 2, 2019Love and AnorexiaIt began with an email, one that dropped into my inbox from someone I did not know. Over the years of our correspondence her email names and address changed, from Azhe’n to Be Love to Opus Literati to Private Soulstice. …Mental Health4 min read
May 12, 2019I Was Estranged from My Mother. It Was Hard to Say Good-Bye to My Own Daughter.I’d been dreading this moment for 27 years, since the day my older daughter was born. As I stood holding her at the hospital window that night, looking into the darkening intersection of Sixth Avenue and 11th Street, I thought Someday she’ll leave me. She did, of course, moving out…Family6 min read
Jul 20, 2016An Open Letter to RepublicansDear Republicans, It’s human nature to want power. Republicans and Democrats and Libertarians and Green Party members and Independents — we all want the power to run things the way we think they should be run. And as human beings we have our own interests at heart. Preservation of the…Politics3 min read